me, Stefan, Kayla, Miranda, and Michelle in the kitchen |
Michelle and Kayla picking strawberries from the garden |
Miranda! |
In Miranda's childhood home, communication was the most important aspect. Therefore, not only did she major in psychology, she feels comfortable broaching all topics with all people...anytime. For instance, our host Mauro has two children from another marriage, and twice now I've walked into a room just as she was asking him what their names were or how often he saw them when they were little. Or like today: she mentioned to Mauro and Pia that they were in a much better mood, and then she whispered, "Are you making more love?" Thankfully, Pia had just asked the table another question and didn't hear her.
Stefan and Kayla at the Swedish dinner |
Let's start with Kayla. One of Kayla's first stories went something like this:
One of my friends was in an office waiting room when the woman at the front desk came into the room to timidly call a name, "Shady Nasty?" the woman said, barely audible. No one responded. The woman said it again, a little louder this time, "Shady Nasty?" The woman continued to say this name until she was nearly shouting in her search for this patient, "SHADY NASTY?" Finally a woman stood up.
"Uh-uh, girl! It's Sha Dynasty!"
I've often heard Stefan call Kayla "Qui (pronounced kwy)" and I asked her why this was so. She informed me that in the eighth grade, she made up a name for herself: Quila Bagina Lynn (QBL, as her friends sometimes call her). There was no reason for her to make up and use this name.
Although Kayla is silly quite often, she is one of the most attentive people I know. She notices when a topic of conversation bothers someone enough for him/her to quietly leave the room. She called me considerate when I poured the breakfast cereal instead of using my hand to grab some out of the bag. She always says thank you, no matter if you should have completed the task anyways or not. Her relationship with the Lord is very important to her, and you can catch a hint of that in tomorrow's post about wildlife!
Stefan is the reader. Not that Kayla isn't a reader, but in comparison to Stefan, most people just aren't readers. On more than one occasion, we've been waiting to have a meal because Stefan is off somewhere reading, oblivious to the fact that we ravenous WWOOFers are patiently waiting for him to drop the iPad. Because his reading appetite is insatiable, Stefan knows a lot about a multitude of different topics. (He taught world history for a bit.) He often asks our opinions about different things and then tells us what he's read about them lately. When I suggested he start making money on trivia game shows, he told me that he doesn't know much about all that popular stuff, just about the things that he thinks are worthwhile. A few days ago in the vineyards, he mentioned that he believes empathy is the most important virtue you can instill in a person, and today the whole group held an hours-long discussion (mainly encouraged by Stefan) on morality while we peeled and chopped apples.
Cutting apples for jams...for hours |
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